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Counselor Frank Edem Adofoli has pleaded with rapper Sarkodie to try and comprehend that Yvonne Nelson is just hurting because of the painful love affair they had when they were younger, about thirteen years ago.
In Mr Adofoli’s view, Sarkodie should understand that Yvonne Nelson may not necessarily be interested in seeing his downfall but may be hurt over their affair, and not see her as an enemy out to destroy him through her revelations about their love affair that caused her to abort a pregnancy.
He suggested that Sarkodie will be able to appropriately contextualize Yvonne Nelson’s revelations in her recently published book and demonstrate empathy for her when he realizes that she is suffering as a result of that connection.
“Look deep inside yourself, examine your anger, and you will realize that the woman you see as your ‘enemy’ is also suffering because of an affair that went wrong some years back when you both were younger.
Once you understand this, you will have the capacity to ignore the ‘noise’ and have compassion for her. People may forget the one who made them laugh but not the one who made them cry,” he advised.
He insisted that a show of compassion by Sarkodie would be better than his harsh reply to the revelations.
“In conclusion, “The shouts of an angry king are like a roaring lion, but his kind words are like a gentle rain falling softly on the grass” – Proverbs 19:12 (ERV)” he added.
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