Mark Clyde, the founder of the YouTube channel “Rise and Fly,” has posted a deeply personal video that contemplates his life experiences.
Although his channel mainly focuses on travel content, Mark stepped aside from his typical subjects to talk about something more personal: his challenges with friendship, love, and connection.
This loneliness continued into his school years, during which he struggled to form friendships.
Although he made several efforts to befriend others, Mark sensed a lack of connection with the individuals he encountered.
When Mark enlisted in the Army, he aimed to improve his social circumstances, but the shift wasn’t as seamless as he anticipated.
His experiences in Iraq, specifically, contributed to a more complex perspective on relationships.
Nonetheless, the precariousness of existence in such a perilous setting made it even more difficult for Mark to lower his defenses.
Mark’s openness and sincerity in this video were influenced by another YouTube creator who had comparable life experiences.
Opening up to his viewers, he explained, “I’m 41 years old, and I want to talk to you all about something a bit personal today.”
“I have no friends, no wife, and no social life,” he confessed, his voice tinged with sincerity. “And I’m going to tell you why.”
Mark revealed that growing up, he often felt isolated. “I was the only boy in the house with two older sisters, and I was a bit of a loner. I had my own room, did my own thing,” he shared.
“I was shy, and I never really knew how to interact with people easily,” he admitted.
He said, “I might have had maybe three friends growing up, but even then, I realized many of them only stuck around for their own reasons—whether they needed something from me or were just looking for a connection.”
“You meet people, but you never really know who you can trust, especially when you’re in a high-pressure environment like boot camp,” he said, reflecting on his time in the military. “Even when I was stationed overseas, I tried to open up to people, but it was hard to find real, lasting connections.”
“Over there, you’re surrounded by people you’re supposed to trust because you’re literally fighting side by side,” he explained.
“You meet people, you bond, and then you lose them. You realize how fleeting friendships can be when things get serious.”
“I watched a video by a guy named ‘Let Him Know So’ and I was really inspired by how open he was. It made me feel like I could do the same,” Mark shared.
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