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According to renowned marriage therapist Kwaku Adumatta, marriage is one of life’s most agonizing and challenging institutions.
Counselor Adumatta has observed that although the ceremony at the holy institution is lovely, the journey there is full of ups and downs.
In an interview with Rev. Nyansa Boakwa on Happy 98.9FM’s Nsem Pii show, he said “
“But people need to understand the reality that marriage is not on a silver platter, and things don’t always go through for you as soon as you get married. No one gets married to their enemy, they marry the ones they love but people get married and become enemies to those they were once in love with,” he said.
Anyone who doesn’t comprehend this principle, he said, would never have a successful marriage.
“When couples who have been married for as long as 30, 40 or 50 years are asked how they got far in their marriage, the few things they will tell you are it was through patience, friendship etc.
“They will never tell you the dark, rough and bad sides they faced to get to where they are now. They know if they didn’t go through that phase and if they didn’t understand themselves, they wouldn’t still be together,” he stated.
“So, know that, there is no marriage that doesn’t come with challenges. They all do but it all depends on how the couples handle it and get past it,” he said.
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